Guys And Wedding Planning

Guys and wedding planning

Does it seem like your guy is just not that interested in the wedding? I know this isn’t exactly a newsflash, but men don’t care about having the perfect wedding as much as women do.

There are of course exceptions to both parts of that statement...but in general, I think it’s safe to say that as far as planning goes, girls, you’re on your own. Unless of course you find out what parts of the wedding day your groom is interested in and you make those his responsibilities from start to finish.

The key is to gauge his sincere interest. You don’t want to simply assign a number of seemingly easy tasks to your groom because then his involvement runs the risk of being meaningless. For example, we get calls from grooms sometimes inquiring about favors and most of the time it is obvious that they have no idea what they’re talking about. And a lot of the time they’ll tell us right off the bat that they’re only calling because their fiancés asked them to call.

How meaningful is that? But once in a while we get to help a guy who clearly has a vision about his wedding favors, has done some research and is genuinely excited about finding what he’s looking for. So if you want to get your man involved and helping out, ask him what he thinks is important. Maybe take mental notes about the things to which he pays particular attention when you attend other people’s weddings. In my experience, this tends to be the music, the slideshow and the alcohol. Remember though that once you decide to hand over responsibility, don’t micro-manage him. If it’s important to him, he’ll do a good job. Trust in that and you’ll both be just fine.

Winnie
Beau-Coup

Choosing Your Wedding Flowers

Choosing Your Flowers

It is best to book your florist approximately 6 months prior to your wedding. Especially if your wedding is to take place during a popular month (like May to August). Prior to picking out your flowers, it is wise to have your ceremony and reception locations determined. These will influence your decisions. Outdoor weddings don’t usually require as many flowers to set the mood. Church ceremonies may call for a decorated alter or pews but some churches have restrictions on decorations.

Budget can also play a role in your selections. Consult with your florist as to the types of flowers that will be in season for your wedding. Many flowers have very specific growing periods and can become quite costly outside of this range. Certain seasons may present different challenges such as a winter wedding. Berries and greenery can be a great alternative at this time of year. Think outside the box. Floral arrangements can be quite striking when combined with fruits such as limes or lemons. Try adding seed pods or grasses as an alternative. Nowadays, eclectic mixes can be quite stunning. Pick one color as your floral theme but mix and match your vases and containers to add personality to your tables and centerpieces. The possibilities are endless.

Wedding Tips and Ideas

Thoughtful Welcome Gifts

It is almost a given, that today's weddings gather together family and friends from far and wide. Whether a couple chooses to celebrate with a destination wedding weekend or selects a romantic and sentimental local closer to home, many of the invited guests will be required to travel a substantial distance to share in the event.

To acknowledge this extra effort and expense, many couples choose to greet weary-travelers with a thoughtful Welcome Gift. The contents and style of presentation varies greatly. Typically, the gifts relate to the theme of the wedding or the location. Locally produced products such as candies, fresh fruit along with maps and a wedding itinerary are often included. Be sure to attach phone numbers or room numbers in order to contact the hosts or to have any questions answered.


Many Hotels will be willing to have these welcome treats placed in each guest room in advance of their arrival or presented at time of check in.
With a little imagination, your guests will be amazed with your attention to detail. Take this opportunity to say "Thank You for Making the Journey" in a very special way.

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The Origin Of A Wedding Guest Book

The actual origin of this tradition is somewhat uncertain, but clearly remains a wedding “must-have”. Once a simple record of signatures gathered in a somewhat nondescript book placed at the church or reception has evolved and is now seen as another opportunity to add distinctive flare.

The standard Guest Book remains a very popular option and is now available in an almost endless range of styles and prices. Many Brides are selecting a Cover Design that will be in keeping with their wedding theme in order to coordinate all of the décor elements throughout the day. Inside pages pre-printed with headings, generally guiding guests to sign not only their names but also special thoughts. The longstanding tradition of signing the Guest Book with a Plume Pen in more recent years has decreased in popularity. In its place are beautiful desk Pens available in a wide range of styles, many of which designed to match the Guest Book itself and add glamour to the table display.

In an effort to allow Guests the freedom to expand their messages, some couples are electing to use a book with blank pages throughout. “Well Wishing Cards" have also evolved to accommodate more extensive greetings. Guests are asked to record their thoughts onto these small note cards or directly onto the blank pages. Completed cards are deposited in a decorative receptacle in keeping with the décor. Another option would be to create “Well Wishing” cards that include a decorative ribbon allowing them to be tied to a stylish tree or branch.
In some cases, couples are encouraging guests to be creative with their greetings. All confirmed attendees are sent a sheet of card stock paper with the instructions to write a poem, draw a picture, or share words of wisdom . . . whatever they choose. Guests are asked to bring their completed pages to the wedding at which time they are compiled into a “Wedding Guest Book” like no other.
Similarly, a “Message Centre” can be set up in a suitable location at the Reception. Equipped with paper, coloured markers, scissors and scrap booking embellishments, guests are invited to visit the center throughout the event to create an artistic message for the happy couple. Later it is compiled into a Memory Book that can be cherished for a lifetime.

Another idea is to have guests sign their names directly onto a tablecloth using a permanent fabric marker. Following the wedding, these signatures can be enhanced with hand embroidery if desired. The resulting table linen will be a wonderful keepsake and perfect for special occasion such as Anniversaries and Baby Showers.

For those that prefer pictures, Photo Guest Books have become a very interesting option. These can be created using a variety of strategies. One possibility is to ensure each table is provided with a sheet of suitable paper. Have all the guests seated at each table sign their names along with a brief message on the reverse side of the sheet. Ensure that each table grouping is photographed at some point during the reception. Once the images are developed, mount the appropriate photograph on the front side so that it coordinates with the signatures on the back. Or, using a Polaroid camera, photograph all guests as they arrive at the reception or set up a designated area for just this purpose. Guests can be photographed in couples or family groupings. Mount the images in a suitable album and have guests sign adjacent to their picture. Small “Well Wishing” Cards also are ideal and can be tucked into a pocket situated below each photograph.
Regardless how you choose to format your “Guest Book” you will thoroughly enjoy looking back and recalling all those that were able to share in this very happy day!

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